Congratulations to this year's high school graduates. Those of you preparing to enter college in the fall will be investing more money than ever before for your education, so here are some thoughts on getting your dollar's worth.

1. Small talk is a big deal. College is a great place to acquire friends and ideas, and small talk starts the process. You're about to be thrust into a new environment, and your willingness to chat shows that you are interested in life and people. Project a demeanor of openness and positivity; use your idle time in the dorms or hallways to start conversations and form friendships. Of all the skills you learn or refine in college, the art of conversation may be the most valuable throughout your life.

2. Are you getting precisely what you need and want? College is completely customizable, but most people stick with a standard Major or a counselor-recommended track. Either can work, but to get the most for your money, don't forget that you are a unique individual with your own interests and abilities. At college, as in life, almost everything can be negotiated between reasonable people, including the design of your Major. I know of a man who got a Bachelor of Science degree in Philosophy! He designed a program, made a compelling case, and got approval from the University. Think hard about the education you want, and take initiative to get it.

3. Also forge relationships with professors, librarians, counselors and teaching assistants. These people are there to help you, but they cannot help if you hide in the shadows. Get to know the people providing your education, and don't be afraid to approach them with your questions and ideas. The best professors appreciate your interest whether they agree or not. The worst need to be challenged.

4. Have fun, but take care of yourself. The adults of the cartoon series South Park warn their children about the dangers of drugs by saying, "There's a time and a place for everything, and it's called college." Maybe so, but "everything" also includes learning how to take responsibility for your own health, fitness, and happiness. Take a nutrition class. Take advantage of the gym, running trails, bike paths, and other fitness resources. Take at least one fun class every term, so you have something to look forward to, no matter how tough your other classes are.

High schools are like factories, equipping young men and women with basic educational skills. College is a laboratory where you get to apply those skills, conduct experiments, and seek the most important discovery of all: yourself.